Here are five ways it may work for you and members of your family to gather:
Skip-gen getaways
Many grandparents love exploring with the younger generations but planning can be a challenge. Consider this: a skip-gen or gramping vacation. Parents get a break and grandparents and grandkids get to know each other without the filter of mom or dad on the scene. Grandparents: Plan now to share your experiences and knowledge with your grandkids. Are you a World War II veteran or wild about rockets? Did you grow up inspired by jazz or classical music? Did the ethnic or rural neighborhood of your youth greatly influence the person you are today? Visit a war memorial, take in a small concert or visit the old stomping grounds. It will mean more to hear a bit of history from someone who has been there than what they’ll find in schoolbooks. And remember, you are part of their history.
For more: www.destinationhotels.com; www.visitspacecoast.com; www.travelalaska.com
Milestone moments
Planning ahead to celebrate birthdays, graduations, retirements and anniversaries can be an important touchstone and meaningful part of a family’s legacy. With plenty of advance notice, the odds increase that more family members will be able to take part in the fun. Consider a guest ranch and you’ll find a long list of intriguing options and appealing destinations from which to choose. With activities to engage every generation as well as plenty of food choices (and the volume to satisfy hungry teens), you’re sure to see smiles all around. Sleeping quarters, including lodge-style rooms, more rustic cabins, yurts and glamping-style tents provide the privacy and flexibility required for early birds, nappers and night owls.
For more: www.duderanch.org
Rockstar relatives
Are you an amazing aunt, an unbelievable uncle or a cool cousin? Perhaps your birdlings have flown the nest or your own kids have fur and four legs. Either way, you may want to join the increasing number of relatives choosing to explore with youngsters as their trusty travel companions. Share your passion to fish or hike, learn a new skill together or plan a mutually engaging adventure to a national park or a far-off land. You’re certain to return with a deeper bond and memories to share for a lifetime.
For more: www.pawsup.com; www.montanatrout.com; www.visitscotland.com
Family reunions
The true value of a family gathering isn’t about checking in to a faraway resort or a snazzy urban hotel. That option might not be in the cards for your crew right now. It’s more about the quality of a shared experience. So, whether you are planning a small gathering in a state park picnic area or a more elaborate meeting of the clan, organization will be key. Gather input regarding a budget, destination and lodging preferences, activities and meal planning. Get a date on the calendar as soon as possible. Communicate well and often. Keep your sense of humor at the ready and be grateful that at least some portion of your family is eager to spend time together.
Like family
With relatives spread far and wide, our best friends often become “like family.” Traveling with another crew, particularly one with children of similar ages and interests, can be fun and festive. Still, proper planning can go a long way toward keeping relationships and expectations intact. Family groups often choose to share a ski cabin, beach house or urban condo. That can mean divvying expenses, transportation, room assignments, cleaning and cooking. Avoid misunderstandings about how time and resources will be allocated with a clearly defined plan before your vacation gets underway. No matter how much you enjoy your travel buddies, carve out private time with your own family. You’ll be glad you did.
For more: www.airbnb.com; www.xanterra.com
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Lynn O’Rourke Hayes (LOHayes.com) is an author, family travel expert and enthusiastic explorer. Gather more travel intel on Twitter @lohayes, Facebook, or via FamilyTravel.com
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